Saturday, July 26, 2008


The Last Two Weeks

have been amazing! To most this probably will seem really silly/dull... but to us it was huge. We completed an incredible session of swimming lessons. The reason is was so wonderful is that it was sponsored by the local school's PTA and were at the local golf/course development pool. It was amazing because in the past we've had to drive so far to get to lessons and it was hard to do consistently.The lessons we did do were in pools that were too crowded and too noisy (not real conducive to someone with receptive language issues). Alex has had 2 formal lessons (prior to giving up last time) and Ellie has had 3. We dont have easy access to a pool so they havent had a chance to be in the water much outside our hot tub.

I've hated this because I feel all children should learn to swim for safety reasons. So this has really bugged me.

By the end of the 9 day session, Alex who was classified pretty much as a "non-swimmer" going into the lessons was swimming with "freestroke (yeah it still needs some work, but.. I'm not going to complain) across the pool and was comfortable treading water and being in the deep end. Not quite as much progress with Ellie as she didnt want to dunk her head (gotta work on that in the hot tub) even tho she loved every minute of being in the pool. And the few times the teacher gently nudged her past her comfort zone, taking her under, she was absolutely fine .. The teacher feels that next year when she's able to more easily reach the bottom she'll be swimming in a heartbeat.

Even more incredible that the swim lessons, however, were all the great kids we had a chance to meet. Most go to the local school - where I hope Ellie and Alex will both go come Fall. Now, I'm even more for it, as both children have gained a bunch of new friends. I felt like we were saying goodbye to folks I didnt want to at the end, and so hope we can make things work at local school for Ellie (if you dont know what I'm saying here, scroll down for school saga stuff :) ) Last time I talked to the District Supervisor, he admitted he was working on "thinking outside the box!"..

I took my camera a few days and wont post pics of the other kids for privacy, but got the feeling no one had ever taken pics. They were so excited as perhaps some of the pics could be included in the next Yearbook. Almost all the local kids participated. And Thursday I got some great shots of the entire group. I did this cause it was lots of fun and obviously wanted to get pics of my kids (will attach here) but hope that the 1/2 dozen volunteers who were there and active with the school also recognized how involved I will be if my kids go to the school..

Next big concern however is having both kids in one class.. hmm... not sure how that will play out..









Monday, July 21, 2008

I'm SOOOOproud!

Hey everyone
wanted to share, first cause I'm so proud, but also because I know there are others who perhaps are raising children with challenges. Ellie has been doing therapeutic riding for 18 months now and loves it. We've seen it help her receptive language skills as well as her motor/tone issues (which are fairly mild in comparison to many). So yesterday she rode as a demonstrator rider at a rather frou-frou (hoighty-toighty - sorry, sp.. way off! Smile) Equestrian and Arts festival. It was a fundraiser granted, but lets just say not many of my friends would have stopped by to see her at $35 a pop to get in the door (per person) - YIKES! She rode with a little boy we've heard lots about and at one point thought they'd pair the two together, but schedule issues prevented this. He's about a year younger. He and Ellie both have tone issues but suspect his challenges thru time have been more significant. AND he was AMAZING!! I can't even tell you.. He's been riding the same amt of time as Ellie and was much more competent with the vaulting. I was just in awe!

It was just so heartwarming and so very cool to see the two of them. I think the Director of the program (man in arena) who of late has been traveling the world to consult, had forgotten that Ellie hasnt done much vaulting of late as she's with some new students and they're not doing that right now. She's only "stood" up once (I think) , so I was so proud of her. She was a hoot.. The children in her class on Fridays are twins (only 3 1/2 ) and she loves them. They came to see the demonstration. She had to wave to them every time she went by the stands.. And at the end, she bowed when everyone clapped.. Everyone was cracking up - I asked her if someone told her to do that, ahd she said "no.. you're just supposed to!"... So the Director afterwards said "have your agent call mine ".. LOL!! She's just such a natural and could have cared less with all those folks watching her (I truly had no clue how she'd do).. AND If you have a child with tone issues, esp.. can't recommend this type of program enough. Many have huge wait lists (ours was 6 months, but I've heard of waits up to 3 years (WAY yikes!) altho our place just moved so now they can take many more kids.

The Demonstration was done to the song (and can't remember who sings but it was in "Toy Story".. probably a bunch of other stuff too) called "You've got a friend in me" :)






Riding Backwards, practice session before Show


Standing up at rehearsal

Standing up with her Riding Partner


Looking for mom once in arena at show

Looking for mom again :)!!

Waving to her classmates in stands

On Knees

Standing and maintaining as her horse walked forward

Tuesday, July 08, 2008

Interesting Health Food Tips:

As we enter our 4th year of being gluten and casein free in this household (add corn and soy for Ellie), I continue to look for things to spice up our meals and esp some fun things for the kids so they feel like they're not always cheated.

Recently in a newsletter I received there were some really great tips. I dont normally get too interested in stuff like this but found some of the following interesting. Thought I'd share... and after reading once again about how great Quinoa is we gave it a try and LOVED it.. Def a new fav around here... So here are the tips:


10 Foods You Should Eat
By Steve Edwards

Healthy EatingWe've all heard about superfoods—consumables with mystical powers to cure whatever it is that ails you and that will help you live forever. This list will be different. Today we'll look at some common items that should be on your menu, even though you probably haven't heard them touted as the next great miracle cure. In fact, some of these you probably thought were bad for you.

I begin this list with a caveat; we're all different. One person's superfood is another's trip to the emergency room (soy comes to mind here). There are some nutritional factors we all share, such as the need to eat a certain amount of calories that come from fats, proteins, and carbohydrates to keep our bodies functioning as they should. Beyond this, our exact dietary needs begin to diverge.

RunnersThere are some obvious reasons for this. Lifestyle and activity level are pretty easy to understand. That someone who is pregnant or training for an Ironman needs more calories than a computer programmer who sits for 14 hours a day isn't difficult to fathom. Neither is the fact that a 90-pound ballerina uses less fuel than a 350-pound lineman. That we all eat a different number of calories and a different percentage of fats, proteins, and especially carbs is obvious, or at least should be, since the bigger you are and the harder you work the more fuel your body needs to recharge itself.

What's more subtle are body type differences. These can be difficult to understand, and many people never figure them out. Blood type, heredity, and other factors come into play and make each of us unique individuals. When it comes to eating, most of us spend a fair portion of our lives figuring out just what we should be eating to maximize our life experience (which doesn't necessarily mean we choose the healthiest options). For this reason, there is no true "superfood." There are, however, helpful foods that are specific to each of us. By experimenting with our diets, we will all find a course of eating that makes us feel better than anything else.

To help you begin your self-experiment, here's a list of common foods that you'll want to try. Most of these are very healthy for almost everyone, even though some have been vilified by society. This doesn't mean that they'll transform you into an epitome of health, but they're certainly worth a try.

1. Peanut ButterPeanut butter. I'm leading with this because I'm fairly certain peanut butter single-handedly kept me from getting chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS) during the no-fat 90s. In the early 90s, the average amount of fat in our daily diets plummeted while the incidence of CFS* skyrocketed. This was particularly true among the otherwise healthy endurance sports sect. In the early 90s, my body fat was once recorded at 2 percent. Sure, I was ripped. Healthy? Not so much. I'm pretty sure that only my adherence to peanut butter as a healthy fat source kept my athletic obsession intact.

* CFS is the colloquial veil for debilitating disorders marked by chronic mental and physical exhaustion.

A bevy of modern studies now vindicates my opinion with science. Peanuts are high in both fat and calories but their fat has been associated with decreased total cholesterol and lower LDL and triglyceride levels. It's also high on the satiation meter, meaning that a little can fill you up.

2. Cabbage. Every Asian culture, as well as European, eats more cabbage than we do and it's time we thought about it more often than when we happen to splurge on P.F. Chang's. Cabbage is absurdly low in calories and very high in nutrients. Among these is sulforaphane, which a Stanford University study showed as boosting cancer-fighting enzymes more than any other plant chemical.

3. QuinoaQuinoa. This "grain" isn't technically a grain at all. It just tastes like one. It's actually a relative of spinach, beets, and Swiss chard. All of these are extremely healthy from a nutrient point of view, but quinoa is the only one that can fool you into thinking you're eating a starch. It's high in protein, minerals, vitamins, and fiber.

4. Spelt. This one is actually a grain but its origin is slightly mysterious. Some claim it comes from wheat while others say it's a different species. Regardless, it has a high nutritional profile and can be eaten by many people with gluten intolerance, making it a good alternative to wheat products. Spelt can be found in many products, but as it's still considered a "health food," it's off the major processing radar. Unlike wheat, if spelt is on the ingredients list, it's probably good for you.

5. WalnutsWalnuts. All nuts, really, but walnuts seem to be the king of the nut family. Used in Chinese medicine for centuries, walnuts are becoming more associated with Western health than ever before. A 2006 study published in the Journal of the American College of Cardiology found that eating walnuts after a meal high in bad fat could reduce the damaging effects of the meal.

6. Avocado. Another villain in the old no-fat movement, avocados are now thought to be one of the healthiest fat sources available. Beyond this, they have very high amounts of cancer-fighting antioxidants, and recent research seems to indicate that avocados' phytonutrients may also help with the absorption of nutrients from other sources.

7. MushroomsMushrooms. The more we learn about phytonutrients—those that come in a small enough quantity to be missed on a food label (this is a layman's definition only)—the more we should admire ancient cultures. These culinary delights have been feuded over for decades until, for some reason, we'd decided they were pretty much empty calories. The study of phytonutrients has taught us that warring over fungi may have held some rationale after all. Mushrooms are loaded with antioxidants and are thought to boost the immune system, help ward off some cancers, and have high amounts of potassium. Furthermore, researchers at Penn State University have found that mushrooms may be the only food to contain an antioxidant called L-ergothioneine.

8. Tea. Despite a ton of positive press over the last, oh, century, tea and coffee are still the devil's brew in some circles. Perhaps even worse is how many coffee and tea restaurants have bastardized these natural brews into sugar- and fat-filled dessert items. Both tea and coffee, in their basic states, have no calories and many healthy benefits. Between the two, coffee is arguably more popular, most likely due to its higher caffeine content. But tea is probably healthier. Both have a high amount of antioxidants but stats on tea are almost off the charts. A recent study on calcium supplementation in elderly women, published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, showed that bone mineral density at the hip was 2.8 percent greater in tea drinkers than in non-tea drinkers.

9. CinnamonCinnamon. Maybe the novel Dune was more prescient than we've given it credit for. After all, the plot revolves around an entire solar system at war over a cinnamon-like spice. Nowadays, we think of this as little but the flavoring in a 1,100-calorie gut bomb we find at the mall. But Frank Herbert knew a thing or two about history and cinnamon has long been the prized possession of the spice world. It has a host of benefits, but perhaps none more important than this one: USDA researchers recently found that people with type 2 diabetes who consumed one gram of cinnamon a day for six weeks significantly reduced their blood sugar, triglycerides, and LDL cholesterol. "He who controls the spice controls the universe!"

10. Natto. This is on the list because, for one, it's one of the few foods I've eaten that I truly don't like. But mainly, it's here because we've really messed up the way we eat soy. Natto is fermented soybeans and very popular in Japan, which is where I had it. It's becoming more popular here and this is most likely due to its health benefits. Nearly all the soy options we're offered in the U.S. are non-fermented. The list of health benefits of fermented soy is a mile long. It's associated with reducing the risk of cancer, minimizing the likelihood of blood clotting, aiding digestion, increasing blood circulation, an improved immune system, improving bone density, lessening the likelihood of heart attacks, more vibrant skin, and reducing the chance of balding. And it also has strong antibiotic properties, among other things. So you might want to ditch the soy crisps, soy ice cream, and your iced soy mochas and add some natto to your diet.



So here's what the quinoa looks like.. I thought it looked a bit like couscous (which we can't have.. grhhh)....

Sauteed onion and garlic, then added tomatoes and seasonings... the Quinoa was cooked in some chicken broth before being added to the skillet. It was delish! Kids loved it....Sorry, as I said, my "presentation" skills arent real great!





Made this chicken salad with dried cranberries and walnuts for Alex to take to camp today.. Mixed in a tad of garlic... finely minced onion, chopped the walnuts, added some seasonings, the dried cranberries and voila! Yummy!! Really trying to get some new stuff under my belt before going back to work. On the weekend we'll often roast two chickens and I'll make chicken salad out of one... Andrew loves it (but then again, he loves everything food wise which is nice!)

OK.. even tho I've had this cookbook forever (Healthy Food for kids by Rachael Anne Hill), I must have missed this recipe. Alex will be stoked to come home tonight and find we made chocolate mousse! Yep choc mousse with no cream! BUT with plenty of eggs and not cooked which is not great by some.

Recipe:

3.5 oz semi sweet chocolate (at least 70 % cocoa solids)
4 eggs separated
1 tsp unsweetened cocoa powder
4 individual glasses (which I obviously didnt have)

Break chocolate and melt in one pot over another pot of simmering (not quite boiling water)
put the egg whites into a separate container and whip til stiff peaks form. Add the yolks one at a time into the cooled choc mixture and mix thoroughly into all have been incorporated. Fold the whites into the chocolate, being careful not to overmix and lose the air in the whipped egg whites (im still not very good at this, but hey they taste good). Then spoon into your cups. Refrigerate for at least one hour. Then sprinkle some of cocoa powder on top... Garnish with raspberries or mint sprig... Yummm....

What it looks like in book!

Sunday, July 06, 2008


Great Chicken Fajita Recipe!

serves 6

2 tbsp fresh lime juice
grated zest of one lime
1 tbsp chopped fresh cilantro (fresh coriander)
2 cloves garlic, 1 crushed and one minced
salt and freshly ground pepper
4 tbsp (2 fl oz, or 60cc) of extra virgin olive oil
4 skinless boneless chicken breast halves, about 6 oz each (lightly pounded so about same thickness)
2 yellow onions, halved and cut into half moons (1/4 inch thick)
2 red bell peppers seeded and cut into strips 1/4 inch long
2 jalepeno chiles seeded and cut into thin rings
1 tsp of dried oregano
6 flour tortillas warmed
chunky guacamole with tomato (see blow)
sour cream for serving

In a small bowl, whisk together the line juice, lime zest, cilantro, crushed garlic, 1/2 tsp of salt and 1/4 tsp of pepper. Whisk in 2 tbsp of olive oil to make marinade. Transfer the marinade to a large zippered plastic bag, seal and turn to coat chicken with marinade., Refrigerate for at least 1 hour or up to 3, but no longer.

Meanwhile build a charcoal fire in an outdoor grill with a cover and let burn until covered with white ash. Leave the4 coals heaped in center of grill. Do not spread out. For a gas grill, preheat on high heat, then reduce heat tomed.

In lg frying pan, heat remaining two tbsp olive oil over med heat. Add onions, bell peppers and jalapenos and cook., stirring often. until the onions are translucent and very tender, about 15 min. Add the minced garlic and oregano and cook til frgrant about 2 min. Seasaon to taste with salt and pepper. Set the veggies aside.

Lightly oil grill and cook chicken until breasts are cooked thru. Let the chicken rest for 5 minutes then slice on the diagonal across the grain and transfer to a bowl,

When ready to serve return the fry pan and reheat veggies until sizzling. Serve the tortillas, guacomole and sour cream with the chicken and veggies.


Chunky Guacomole with Tomato

In a bowl, combine 2 ripe avocados, pitted, peeled and coarsely chopped. 3 tbsp finely chopped yellow onion, 1 jalapeno chile seeded and minced, 1 tbsp fresh coriander, 1 tbsp fresh lime juice and 1 clove of garlic crushed. Mash with fork until avocado is chunky but not smooth. Stir in a large tomato seeded and cut into 1/2 inch dice,. Season with salt. Makes about 2.5 cups,

Sorry, I will never win any awards for presentation!

Happy Family Day, Andrew Dong Hyeon!!


One year ago today, our wonderful son joined our family! It's been an incredible, whirlwind year. After many months of hard grieving, he began to really settle in. He's our sensitive and oh so loving, sweet boy! And of course being almost 2, he wants what he wants when he wants it! The bond that he and his older brother seemed to forge from day 1 is still there. I didnt know if it would lessen in time. It's so cute to see them together. Alex was so cute recently and changed Andrew's diaper (he volunteered, actually REALLY wanted to) and Andrew came running into the kitchen with a naked bottom and Alex was yelling "hey come back here!".. We feel so Blessed that Andrew is our son! Truly our dream come true! Happy Family Day Sweetie!! Smile

OK here are some of my fav pics!

First Referral pic


2nd referral photo, the Eastern Throne



The Day after arriving home

9 months


11 months


12 months

a few months ago


Yesterday


yesterday, pointing at something - he loves to point!


Tuesday, July 01, 2008

Pics.....

Thought I'd post a few pics.. First as most know, CA is on fire.. something like over 1400 fires have been burning/were burning since summer started. I guess the Governor has just ordered the National Guard to help with the blazes. Last week we never saw the sun and we're pretty far from the nearest fire but.... One night last week we saw just a tad of the sun, got these pics - hopefully I didnt burn a hole in my lens.. of course the smoke filtered the light or I wouldnt have been able to shoot them...








And then some pics of Andrew... He's so enjoying outdoor life and of course wants to do everything everyone else does. Since we've got the large garden he sees his dad watering all the time and wants to "water" to (and generally waters himself as well).....




And finally on the one year anniversary of getting our Toyota Sienna, we got the windows tinted. Some may remember my rant against Toyota for cutting costs by removing tinting from their base model. Just so silly as most who buy mini-vans do so for their family and little kids and babies DONT like the sun in their eyes.. I'm very pleased with how it came out! Andrew will be thrilled. Its also amazing (as I've most always had tinted windows) how much warmer the car gets without the tinting...






On kind of a funny note.. a pic of the critter (one of a family I'm sure) responsible for our poor hot tub not holding water. It's a bummer cause we so enjoy it this time of year. Repair guy coming in a week. These two DEF dont mix well! Altho I'm sure it keeps this little family nice and warm..ICK.. not a snake fan!